Tuesday: Forever Family Day
Tuesday morning started with pastry from the Cake House and Hot Chocolate to go from Billy at the Morning Tomato. We headed to Itaewon, an area that seems to cater to foreigners. We saw more non-Koreans here than anywhere else and wandered among the shops. We stumbled upon a McDonald's and Andrew had to go in to try the Bulgogi Burger. It was pork bulgogi and actually wasn't bad, kind of sweet.
After Itaewon, we headed back to the Namdaemun Market to find flowers for Rowan's foster mother. Thank goodness the market had an information booth, because we would have never found the flower area on the third floor of one of many identical looking buildings (the market covers 10 acres!). We were able to find a nice basket of roses for a great price. At this point it was almost noon, and we were getting excited. Two and a half more hours and we'd become a family of three!
We headed back to the Guesthouse via subway and stopped at the convenience store and grabbed some instant noodles for lunch. You'd think instant noodles would be pretty easy to make, but when the instructions are not in English, you end up with soupy mess. Still tasty though and our stomachs were too nervous to eat all that much anyway.
We walked over to Holt about 2:15 and the foster mother, her son, and Rowan were headed into the building. We thought we needed to go to the social worker's office, but the foster mom ushered us into a room on the first floor. It was clear she was far more experienced at this than we were. The foster dad and social worker, DJ, and another worker from Holt soon joined us. Lined up on the floor were at least a dozen blue Holt flight bags, meaning lots of babies were headed home soon. We took several photos with the foster family and then Andrew held Rowan while DJ showed me all the items in Rowan's bag and explained how to mix the Korean formula. The most precious of all the items in the bag was a necklace with the Korean flag on one side and Rowan's Korean name, Kwak Do Hyun, on the other side. I presented the foster mother with the flowers and thanked her again for caring for him for all these months. DJ wrote down the names of the foster family members so we'll be able to tell Rowan about the family he was part of for 51/2 months. DJ then gave me a baby carrier and she and the foster mom helped place Rowan in it. Throughout the whole meeting, Rowan was calm and happy. We could tell the foster mom was so sad, though she would turn her head away to wipe the tears so we wouldn't see. Rowan was zipped up in my coat and we said our tearful good-byes. We walked back to the guesthouse, amazed and grateful that we were now parents.
After returning to our room. Rowan took a bottle and fell asleep. He woke a few hours later and I think finally figured out that something was going on. He cried and cried and must have been missing his foster mom tremendously. He eventually calmed down. We played and Andrew went to pick up a pizza.
For some reason, corn is a featured ingredient of Korean pizza, but it was really good. We placed the quilt on the floor, since that is how Rowan was used to sleeping. We both tried to sleep with him, but ended up in the softer bed. Neither of us slept much as we kept waking to stare at Rowan.